Using music therapy to alleviate agitation: a soothing approach

May 7, 2023
James Hines
Using music therapy to alleviate agitation: a soothing approach

The Healing Power of Music Therapy

As someone who has experienced the transformative power of music, I can confidently say that music therapy is an effective way to alleviate agitation and promote mental well-being. In this article, I will discuss the different techniques and approaches that music therapists use to help their clients find peace and relaxation. With each section, I will share insights and experiences from my personal journey, as well as the latest research on the subject.

Harmonizing the Mind: How Music Affects Our Emotions

Before we delve into the specific techniques used in music therapy, it's important to understand how music affects our emotions. Research has shown that music has the power to evoke strong emotional responses in listeners, and can even trigger the release of mood-enhancing chemicals in the brain. This emotional response to music is what makes it such an effective tool for managing agitation and promoting relaxation.


When we listen to music, our brains process the various elements of the song, such as melody, rhythm, and harmony. These elements work together to create an emotional experience that can range from happiness and excitement to sadness and nostalgia. By understanding the emotional impact of different types of music, therapists can tailor their approach to meet the unique needs of each client.

Creating a Safe Space: The Role of the Music Therapist

A crucial aspect of music therapy is the relationship between the therapist and the client. The therapist's role is to create a safe and supportive environment where the client can express themselves freely and explore their emotions through music. This may involve playing instruments together, singing, or simply listening to music and discussing the emotions it evokes.


As a music therapist, it's essential to be sensitive to the client's needs and preferences. This means selecting music that resonates with the client and encourages them to engage with the therapeutic process. In my experience, building trust and rapport with the client is key to the success of the therapy, as it allows for a deeper exploration of emotions and a greater sense of understanding and support.

Exploring Rhythm and Movement: Drumming and Dancing

One popular technique used in music therapy to alleviate agitation is engaging clients in rhythmic activities, such as drumming and dancing. These activities can help clients release pent-up energy, express their emotions, and connect with their bodies in a positive and healing way.


Drumming, in particular, has been shown to have numerous therapeutic benefits, including reducing anxiety and depression and promoting relaxation. The repetitive nature of drumming can also help clients enter a meditative state, allowing them to let go of negative thoughts and emotions. Dancing, on the other hand, can help clients connect with their emotions on a deeper level, as they move and express themselves to the music. In my own journey, I have found that engaging in rhythmic activities has been incredibly helpful for managing agitation and staying grounded in the present moment.

Melodies of the Mind: Songwriting and Improvisation

Another effective technique used in music therapy is encouraging clients to create their own music, either through songwriting or improvisation. This allows them to explore their emotions and express their feelings in a creative and non-judgmental way. Songwriting can be particularly therapeutic, as it encourages clients to articulate their thoughts and emotions in a structured and meaningful way.


Improvisation, on the other hand, allows clients to let go of their inhibitions and connect with their emotions on a more intuitive level. By experimenting with different instruments and sounds, clients can discover new ways of expressing themselves and release any emotional blockages they may be experiencing. Personally, I have found that creating my own music has been a powerful way to process my emotions and gain a deeper understanding of myself.

Tuning Into the Self: Guided Imagery and Music

Finally, one of the most soothing approaches in music therapy is the use of guided imagery and music. This technique involves the therapist guiding the client through a series of mental images and scenarios, while carefully selected music plays in the background. The goal is to help the client relax, let go of their agitation, and connect with their inner self.


During a guided imagery session, the client may be asked to imagine themselves in a peaceful and calming environment, such as a beach or a forest. The music serves to enhance the experience and evoke the desired emotions, helping the client to fully immerse themselves in the imagery. I have personally found this technique to be incredibly effective in alleviating agitation and promoting a sense of inner calm and tranquility.


In conclusion, music therapy offers a variety of soothing approaches to help individuals manage agitation and improve their overall mental well-being. By harnessing the power of music and engaging clients in a supportive and creative environment, music therapists can help their clients find lasting relief and healing.

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    Kimberly Ford

    May 7, 2023 AT 08:16

    Music therapy is one of those quiet miracles that doesn't get enough attention. I've seen it work with my grandma with late-stage dementia-she didn't speak for months, but when her favorite Motown songs came on, she tapped her foot and hummed along like nothing had changed. No meds, no drama. Just music. It’s not magic, it’s neuroscience.

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    jerry woo

    May 7, 2023 AT 21:23

    Let’s be real-music therapy is just corporate wellness bullshit dressed up in a beret. They charge $200/hour to play ‘Imagine’ while you cry into a drum. Meanwhile, your insurance won’t cover a single dose of lithium but will pay for a guy in a tie to strum a ukulele. Wake up. The system’s rigged.

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    Jillian Fisher

    May 8, 2023 AT 19:44

    I’m curious-do therapists ever use playlists curated by the patient? Like, what if someone’s trauma is tied to a specific song? Do they avoid it or lean into it? Just wondering how they navigate that minefield.

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    Rachel Marco-Havens

    May 9, 2023 AT 08:16

    People think music therapy is just nice vibes but they don't realize how dangerous it can be if you're not trained. I had a cousin who had a panic attack during a drum circle because the rhythm triggered memories of her abusive stepdad beating the floor with a belt. This isn't a spa day it's clinical work and it needs boundaries

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    Kathryn Conant

    May 9, 2023 AT 23:24

    Y’all need to stop underestimating this. I was in a dark place after my divorce and my therapist had me write a song about my anger. I called it ‘You Took the Couch and the Cat’ and I screamed it into a mic until my throat bled. That was the first time I felt like me again. Music doesn’t fix you-it lets you scream until you find your voice again.

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    j jon

    May 10, 2023 AT 03:36

    My uncle had Alzheimer’s. Played him Elvis. He smiled. That’s all you need to know.

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    Jules Tompkins

    May 10, 2023 AT 15:22

    So I went to one of these sessions last year. Just sat there while some lady played harp and whispered ‘breathe in the light.’ I fell asleep. Woke up an hour later with a blanket and a cup of chamomile tea. I didn’t feel better. But I didn’t feel worse either. So… maybe it works?

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    Sabrina Bergas

    May 11, 2023 AT 01:16

    Music therapy is just a euphemism for ‘we’re too lazy to do real cognitive behavioral therapy’ and now we’re monetizing passive listening. You don’t need a therapist to play you Fleetwood Mac. You need a Spotify Premium account and 10 minutes of self-reflection. Stop romanticizing pseudoscience.

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    Melvin Thoede

    May 11, 2023 AT 16:05

    My daughter’s autistic and she used to scream for hours. We started playing piano with her every night-just simple scales. Now she hums along. She made her first friend last week because they bonded over Taylor Swift. This isn’t therapy. This is love with a metronome.

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    Suzanne Lucas

    May 12, 2023 AT 04:47

    OMG I had a session once and the therapist played ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ and I just lost it. I screamed. I sobbed. I threw a tambourine. My therapist cried too. We hugged. I haven’t felt that seen since high school. I’m not even kidding. This changed my life. Like, movie-level life change.

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    Ash Damle

    May 13, 2023 AT 01:33

    My brother’s a vet with PTSD. He doesn’t talk. But he plays guitar every night. Says the strings remember what his mouth won’t. I don’t know if it’s science or soul. But I know it saves him.

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    Patrick Ezebube

    May 13, 2023 AT 05:34

    Of course music works-it’s all part of the psyop. The pharmaceutical companies don’t want you healing naturally. They need you hooked on SSRIs. Music therapy? That’s the government’s way of keeping you docile while they quietly replace your dopamine with corporate playlists. I’ve seen the charts. They’re tracking your emotional response to ‘Weightless’ by Marconi Union. They know when you’re calm. They know when you’re not. And they’re selling your data to the highest bidder.


    They don’t want you to heal. They want you to be a quiet, compliant, algorithm-friendly zombie. That’s why they fund these ‘studies.’ That’s why they put harpists in nursing homes. It’s not healing. It’s conditioning.


    I once played a song backwards and heard whispers. They’re in the music. They’ve always been there. You just don’t know what you’re listening for.

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    Kevin Ouellette

    May 13, 2023 AT 14:45

    Patrick, you’re not wrong about the system being rigged. But music therapy isn’t the enemy. It’s the thing that still works when everything else fails. My kid’s school has a program-kids with trauma, ADHD, anxiety-they all get 20 minutes a week with a therapist and a keyboard. Some of them start talking for the first time. I don’t care if it’s a placebo if it gets them to breathe again.

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